“Sex on the first date, yes or no?”

Hello!

I’ve been single for a while and have gone on a few first dates. Until now, I have always followed the rule of not having sex on the first date, hoping that it will remain something “special” or that the guys will not lose interest in me so quickly, will not think that I am “cheap”, blah blah. But let’s be honest, usually I get ghosted after the first date anyway or nothing serious happens.

Now I’m wondering: what’s the point of waiting? If things didn’t go any further, I would have at least had a pleasant evening…

And for the men here: how do you actually feel when a woman has sex with you on the first date? Do you think she’s ‘too easy to get’, or does that not matter to you?

I’ve never heard any of my friends say, “Oh no, he slept with me the first night, bad!” Cheap!”…

I’m curious about your experiences!

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