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It’s interesting that you seem to think that breaking up is a request that you have to formally make to your partner and that they can then decide on. Equally interesting is that your partner seems to think the same way. It’s hard to say who’s further off the beaten path here.
However, it is clear that respect plays no role in your relationship. Otherwise, you would have fulfilled your desire to end this relationship and would have done just that. And your partner will accept your decision, even if he doesn’t like it. Instead, you beg to leave, but he won’t let you. This is not an equal relationship, this is a confrontation between a teenage daughter and her overbearing father.
It is your right to terminate this relationship. They don’t belong to your partner, they belong to you, you decide what is right for you. You’ll probably agree with all of this, but it won’t really convince you, and that’s the problem, you believe otherwise. And that belief now defines your reality, which is absolute powerlessness.
You urgently need professional help. Contact a therapist, social services and, if necessary, Kesb. These are, of course, drastic measures, but if you cannot get out of a relationship that you no longer want to be in, then you have a serious addiction, and this is a disease that requires help. The first thing you must do is admit to yourself: I am sick. I need help. I need help to get out of this – and stay away.
This help is there. But you must ask for it yourself. I hope you still have enough self-esteem for this.
Source: Blick
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