She punishes our son – Meyer advises: “Your partner is a bad mother”

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Punishment is a sign of parental incompetence, writes Thomas Meyer.
Thomas MeyerWriter and columnist

Children don’t behave “badly.” They just act like children. If we don’t like something about it, our job is to either figure it out ourselves or explain to them in an age-appropriate way what exactly we want. And recognize that we will have to do this more than once. And sometimes it still doesn’t help.

Children cannot help what they are brought into the world. This is the idea of ​​her parents, who should consider in advance whether they really want to take on such responsibility. Children need a lot of patience, care and patience, and anyone who is not ready for this should be stopped immediately, be it a man or a woman. Giving birth to a child with the desire for him to be a simple and pleasant child is as naive as it is self-centered.

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Secondly, any punishment is a sign of parental incompetence. This is an admission that you have no other means than tyranny to force a child to understand you. Of course, it “works”; children can be broken without any problems. In their desire to cooperate with us, they will do everything to please us, and if we threaten them and punish them with deprivation of love or even beatings, they will quickly submit. But this is not education, this is child abuse. Unfortunately, your partner is a bad mother. This brings us to the third problem.

It seems that you not only disagree on how to deal with your son, but you are also in a weaker position. Thus, your partner’s reign of terror extends not only to your child, but also to you. You should urgently seek external support from social services. Otherwise, your child will also have a bad father.

Source: Blick

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