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The word “narcissism” is on everyone’s lips these days. In common parlance, this means overly generous self-esteem. However, there is also narcissistic personality disorder, and this is a clinical and serious problem that has nothing to do with self-involvement – on the contrary.
Due to traumatic experiences of devaluation in childhood, people suffering from this disorder have a compulsive predisposition to emotionally abuse others and thereby increase their low self-esteem. Humiliation, manipulation, control freaks and lies are the standard repertoire of these psychological terrorists.
But this only works as long as people who think little about themselves are ready for it. Your boyfriend clearly doesn’t think he deserves anything better, otherwise he wouldn’t be doing it anymore. That’s one problem. Secondly, he obviously loves his children, understandably wants to be close to them, and perhaps even believes that he can protect them better this way. In fact, he exposes them to an extremely destructive reality.
Not only because they suffer from constant parental dissatisfaction and it hurts them every day to see how their father is dismantled – especially now. But also because it teaches them completely twisted things about love, intimacy, communication and life in general. And repeat the same thing later.
Unfortunately, this person is not only weak, but also cowardly and selfish. You don’t have to tell him this literally, but you can clearly remind him of his responsibility to at least provide a peaceful and stable home for his children. He should leave immediately.
Source: Blick
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