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Your partner is clearly a fanatical supporter of the established image of a man. This suggests that a man must function without complaint, earn money and always be strong and unshakable. He also has to “carry his partner in his arms,” as is often said. Its goal is pure performance. By registering needs as well as real feelings, you irritate your partner, like a car that suddenly changes its destination on the navigation system because it wants to go somewhere else.
The second problem is your partner’s childish and uncooperative reaction to this irritation: she does not for a moment allow you to express your opinion, but instead fights against it, putting her own before his. This puts you in an irresolvable conflict: you want to be understood and respected, but your partner wants you to keep your mouth shut because she doesn’t like what’s coming out.
Relationships only work if the needs and views of both partners are given equal attention. Unfortunately, against this background, most conditions should be characterized as completely dysfunctional. There is an alarming number of people who are only interested in seeing their own wishes come true and hate their colleagues if they refuse to cooperate. This is also called tyranny.
Try again to make it clear to your partner that your opinion has equal weight and that as a partner you have not only responsibilities, but also rights. If she doesn’t want to understand this at all and continues to insist on emotional autocracy, there is no alternative to separation. You can’t be with someone so immature.
Source: Blick
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