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This is called emotional blackmail, and that in itself is a good reason to end a relationship. However, in your case, the method clearly works: you allow yourself to be intimidated and continue the relationship.
Breakups are something threatening and chaotic. They destroy the familiar structure and catapult us into the unknown. If we are inherently restless and do not deal well with uncertainty, the mere thought of breaking up is catastrophic, and we want to avoid it at all costs. It may even mean that we
heartbroken in our relationship – we still prefer this to the aforementioned chaos, as we are used to it.
Your partner will have to face the question of where her fears come from and why she has such a poor idea of separation and loneliness. The answers will lie in their childhood, and finding them usually involves great pain. But if we do not do this, we will never understand what we are doing, and we will only do it to avoid unpleasant sensations.
You do the same by allowing yourself to be impressed by the drama your partner creates. Why are you so bad at disappointing someone? Why does a possible separation challenge your idea of yourself as a decent person? Even if your woman committed suicide, it would have nothing to do with you, it would just be an extreme way to avoid fear and pain.
Your relationship no longer has a healthy foundation and does not benefit you or you. It is not only your right, but also your duty to stop them. It cannot be avoided that this leads to a brief mess. Your wife will recover.
Source: Blick
I am David Miller, a highly experienced news reporter and author for 24 Instant News. I specialize in opinion pieces and have written extensively on current events, politics, social issues, and more. My writing has been featured in major publications such as The New York Times, The Guardian, and BBC News. I strive to be fair-minded while also producing thought-provoking content that encourages readers to engage with the topics I discuss.
