Undoubtedly, the arrival of a baby brings many changes to the couple and they will have to learn to manage the situation in order for the relationship to work.
Besides being parents, they are couples and individuals, so they have to have time to take care of yourself, maintaining, as far as possible, their marital customs and social relations.
The first months musttake advantage of small momentsthat they have a little time a day to talk, hug or kiss goodbye.
When we talk about sex, it’s normal now there is more fatigueless time, thoughts like “do it fast”, says sexologist Ruth González, on her Instagram profile.
The female body needs weeks to recover from childbirth and be able to have penetrative sexual relations.
Elevated prolactin levels reduce desirewhile the body prepares to care for the newborn.
They have to accept these changes, this does not mean that they have to lose intimacy with their partner, emphasizes the sexologist.
One is the desire for sexual intercourse, and the other is the desire for hugging, kissing, caressing, showing love and holding hands.
In many cases, these gestures are lost because they think that if they intimidate the couple They will want more and thus end up losing that intimacy.
“We have to see it as different stage in which, although there is no sex, there are more intimate moments that ensure that the bond between the couple is not lost, even if it is only for a few minutes a day,” he says.
He adds: “It is important that the show of love does not happen disappear and these caresses or massages are given without asking for anything further, because that is also love and eroticism.
According to experts, these small gestures do not cost that much time, but they have a great effect on the relationship, and give the feeling that, in addition, as parents “we are still taking care of our needs as a couple.”
Over time and when the children are older, routines will changeyou will find more time for individual moments, as a couple, and to continue your sex life.
Source: Panama America
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