Mother is annoying – Meyer advises: “Give her less space in your life”

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Mothers and fathers usually provoke you. This is due to the tense overall story, as well as the astonishing inability of many parents to ever see their offspring as anything other than lifeless idiots who would immediately die without constant intervention. This says a lot about trust in your own upbringing.

Also, many people have no shame or respect, they constantly cross other people’s boundaries and feel good about it. And finally, the relationship between mothers and their daughters seems especially disturbed for some reason: a little weight gain and they start making nasty jokes.

It doesn’t matter why your mother is the way she is. It just seems like you’re giving her too much space in your life. If you saw and heard them half as often, you would feel mistreated half as often. So ask yourself how much you really want to communicate with this person.

The answer will shock you. Firstly, because it will probably be very bad. Secondly, because it will be in sharp contrast to your expectations of yourself. Besides the voice that tells you that the old lady should shut up, there will be another that will tell you that you need to be a good girl and keep quiet. One is right, the other is wrong. You probably think the second option is correct.

You are not obligated to accept anything from your mother, and your mother has no right to accept anything from you. In turn, you have the right to distance yourself enough to feel good about yourself. All you have to do is endure a bad conscience. It will disappear.

Source: Blick