“I just found out my boyfriend has a girlfriend!”

Hello all

I just found out my boyfriend of over a year has another girlfriend.

I found out through a mutual friend who told me he happened to see them holding hands together in Amsterdam. At first he thought he was not seeing well or that he was confusing him. They would also have kissed. He then called out his name and my friend actually turned around. My friend was so shocked that he hid…

My buddy called me right away and asked where my friend was. I said he was in Amsterdam on business. Well that’s what my friend told me…

I couldn’t believe it at first but then I did some research on all his social media channels and found out it’s true. I found the woman on LinkedIn (haha). Via LinkedIn I ended up on her Instagram page, which was of course private. Then I subscribed to her through a fake profile and lo and behold: my friend is grinning at me in her arms in countless photos. I really thought I was going to die on the spot. The first picture is from BEFORE we were even together!

I am devastated and feel betrayed and lied to. I really don’t know what to believe anymore!

The worst: I really love him and thought we could have a future together.

Now I’m not sure what to do. Should I confront him? Should I tell her? Should I just ghost him?

Do you have any idea how I can slap that ass one last time?

He doesn’t know anything and my buddy hasn’t told anyone yet.

Thank you!!!

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