Why are nice words important?

Love phrases are essential in a relationship, because feelings can be expressed and conveyed through them, leaving material things aside, but strengthening the existing relationship in a couple.

That is why they should not be left out relationship.

According to experts if you are phrases of love and affection repressed can cause the other individual to take the same position, cooling the relationship.

There are many couples who have very poor communication of positive feelings between themselves. This is generally due to the different forms of communication that men and women tend to have (on a general level).

“He usually thinks that the pleasant information has already been communicated at some point in the relationship and, therefore, she already knows and already has the information,” says sexologist Ruth Gozález (@ruth_sexologa).

“But women generally use language and for to bond with another person When nice things are said to us, it connects us with our partner,” he adds.

For example: “I know that chocolate is good and that it gives me pleasure when I eat it, so I want to eat it again even though I already know that it is good,” says González.

There are also couples who when they want to say something nice they get tangled up by saying something good and bad at the same time. For example, it would be, “I like that you cooked today because you usually cook badly.”

When they want to promote the communication of the positive, it is not necessary to give an excess of communication, otherwise they will retain the bad part of the information. How? The expert gives an example: “I like that you are friendly, I like how you dressed up today, I like that you gave me flowers, I like that you brought me breakfast.”

At the beginning of a relationship, in the first stages of falling in love, there is more conversation, more affective communication, and less information, but over time this is often lost.

Praise your partner for it, as long as you feel it and are sincere, it costs nothing and helps keep the relationship going.