Couple: How to make a good choice?

Is it really so difficult to choose a partner for life? Although it can be complicated, it is not impossible. There are a few tips that can help you choose that special someone.

Sometimes some are carried away by passion without seeing objectively to the person in front of you. They seem to have a bandage on them eyes where it is difficult to objectively analyze other aspects, other dimensions that will essentially bring us closer to the perfect person.

For this reason, psychotherapist Eliet Rojas offers a list of details which can help you make a good choice of partner.

When talking about “good mate selection” what is involved is take aspects into account which over time make the relationship more satisfying. Like which one?

– Determine the type of relationship they want: For example, monogamous, liberalsamong others in concubinage, in marriage, cohabitation and polyamory.

– Check whether the candidate for a relationship meets the values, needs and limitations: that is, personal freedom, respect for private space, whether the person contributes and makes your life easier and happier.

– Look for common points between both, for the sake of meaning humor, goals and even hobbies: For example, this is important, because the attention you give me in each area also affects the decisions in your relationship.

– Look for an add-on in between love, commitment and intimacy: For a relationship to be healthy, these elements must be present, says the expert at @sexologiayparejas

– Assess compatibility and communication to reach agreements and priorities: It is important to know that you would be a team in pleasant moments and not so free.

“Maybe living together helps practice this part, especially in case mixed families (who already have previous children, there are age differences, they are already divorced), said the specialist.

– That they are more motivated by the fact of achievement New goalsbut to fill the space with your loneliness: Love and the feeling of being in love will always be there if you work for it.

The goals and team you want to achieve together as a couple are important. Check how willing he is whether and how available you are to make these changes in your life.