“My boyfriend wants me to hit his balls during sex (???)…”

Hey zama!

I’ve been with a man for 3 months now, who is increasingly showing what he really likes about sex. In the beginning we had relatively “normal” sex. You would probably describe it as flower sex. But I’m in the mood for that now. And with him, it’s probably more difficult things. He tried to strangle me a bit once, I didn’t like that at all and immediately put his hand away, he understood that immediately and never did it again. But recently, while we were making out, he asked me if I could slap his testicles a bit. …And I like this: ???

I then asked if he was serious, and he said he’d appreciate it if you were a little “rough” with him. I think that’s just the tip of the iceberg and he’s trying to figure out how much understanding I have about his preferences.

I really don’t want to be with someone who likes that sort of thing. I think that’s funny.

But why break up? Otherwise we have a really great time. But if there are such big differences in sex, I don’t really know if it has a future.

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