“He made no effort and came after 1 minute!”

I met a cool guy three weeks ago, we met twice and texted every day. The day before yesterday I was invited to his house and it came down to sex. The sex was very disappointing as it never touched me intimately. I, on the other hand, tried passionately, put it in my mouth, etc. When we had sex, he came after a minute. He apologized briefly. After that the situation was just weird.

The lightness and cordiality were gone. I also left after that. I feel sooo strong disgust. I can hardly eat anymore. I feel so humiliated as a woman. How can a 21st century man be so selfish? He didn’t even touch me downstairs. If he had at least made himself known, I wouldn’t feel so tarnished. I openly told him that I don’t want and don’t have ONS – which is exactly what happened. Like I said, he’s not answering. How should I handle it? We’re both in our late thirties, Gopf!

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