“How do you break up with someone in a good way?”

Hello you

I broke up with my partner a few weeks ago. It was very difficult for me because I am not very good with words. That’s why I wrote everything down beforehand and then I even practiced it and then I went to my ex and more or less “recited” my speech to him. And to be honest, it was a disaster.

Of course he soon noticed what I was stuttering and trying to say and stopped me. That got me out again and I don’t even remember what I was babbling about. It was really bad and I also feel sorry for him that I did it in such a stupid way. Since then he has not spoken to me or responded to any of my messages. I also wrote him a letter which he never answered.

I actually think it’s important that things like that happen with respect. I think I messed that up pretty bad.

But how do you break up with someone in a good way? How can you prepare for something like that? Can you tell from your own experience? Thank you for your tips.

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