“What are the signs that I’m being scammed?”

dear community

I am afraid of being abandoned. I’m really in love for the first time in my life and I definitely don’t want to ruin this relationship. I really do everything I can to make it work! We’ve been together for almost 6 months now and I think things are going pretty well. But sometimes I get the feeling that something is just not right… Every now and then my girlfriend puts her cell phone down when I follow her. Or she cancels me spontaneously and for no real reason, simply because she is tired or has some housework to do. Are these the first signs?

What shows that I am being scammed? I didn’t have a girlfriend before and now I don’t want to ruin everything again. She often told me to relax a little. But that’s not so easy.

Ah yes, I’m 31 years old and I just flirted a few times before that, but nothing serious, so it’s so important to me that things go well.

Thanks for your tips.

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