“Are 17 different sex partners really too much…???”

Hello everyone

Recently I got into an interesting discussion with my former classmates. We met again after a long time for the class reunion and coincidentally the conversation started about who used to have something with whom, who had sex with whom, who had sex with whom for the first time, blah blah blah. At one point we also talked about the current number of our sex partners. I must say that we are all around 35 years old.

When I then told them that there were probably about seventeen of them – although to be honest there could certainly be a few more, I haven’t kept a list – everyone without exception was shocked. Honestly, I don’t even think that number is particularly high, especially considering that I’ve experienced a healthy mix of relationships and single years.

However, they all seemed to live in their own little world of two long-term relationships at most. They were really shocked.

My question: am I the one with an unusual attitude or are you living in a bubble? how do you see it? Is this a city-rural thing…?

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