“Should I tell my father that my mother cheated on him?”

dear community,

I found out completely by accident a few days ago that my mother cheated on my father in the past. I was at my parent’s house getting stuff from the basement, my dad left the key and obviously didn’t tell my mom I was coming over – or forgot, whatever. Anyway, I was in the basement sorting things out when I heard upstairs that my mother had come home. She was on the phone, so I thought I’d hold off on saying hello.

She put the groceries away and kept calling, and then I heard her tell her friend that it would be the same situation as then. She too would have been in love, cheated on her husband, but stayed with him because you don’t just throw away so many years.

I thought I was going to get hit.

I don’t know what period we’re talking about here, if my father knows about it, or if I was even born then – I just know.

I then made a lot of noise so she would check I was there and pretended not to hear her, and came home so she wouldn’t get a shock.

But what should I do now???

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