Porn Literacy: How Do I Explain Pornography to Kids?

What do you want to know?
Why do adults in movies moan so loudly? Someone once said that he watched a movie in which a woman put cucumbers in herself.

How did you answer the cucumber question?
Such a question usually comes in a specific context. For example, when it comes to masturbation. Next, I say that people warn themselves in many different ways, and that porn often uses things that don’t come to mind when thinking about sex. Children should be aware that it is generally not recommended to insert any everyday objects into their body openings.

They beg for porn competence. What do you mean by that?
I realize that porn should not be a guide to how I want to experience sexuality myself. Actors usually do not realize their own erotic fantasies, they follow the instructions of the script and the director. This has little to do with reality. As with action movies, the audience is often delighted with the most extreme content possible.

What do you want to say?
In action movies, you rarely see someone struggling to get down from the first floor for an escape. People jump off the roof and fall on their feet. Anything else bores viewers, even if they know what is being shown is unrealistic. It will be equally important to have an idea of ​​what is real and what is fake about porn.

What examples do you have regarding this?
Depictions of violence are of course predetermined, giving the impression that not all participants are having the same amount of fun. If not, it’s not porn anymore, it’s video violence. There are various tricks for porn shots. For example, some shots use drinks or other liquids that look similar to real sperm instead of real sperm. And if it no longer works with an erection, you can help the erectile tissue with injections.

How do such details affect students?
Sobering. Also with them “What It Takes to Make the Perfect Porn Movie?” I’m doing an exercise called. Those who think that students will want to practice this later are wrong. When they realize how many people are on set, how hard it is to find a seat, and how much management a cast requires, it has a disenchanting effect. He steals pornography from his myth.

From what age should children start thinking about their porn proficiency?
Parents may face problems as soon as they provide internet access devices to their children. This also includes moments where the son or daughter is allowed to play games on the iPhone or tablet so the adults can talk undisturbed. If the games are free, they usually show personalized ads. It can even appear in children’s games if a parent consumes pornography on their smartphone.

This would be a nightmare for most parents.
Of course, as parents it is important to ensure that such situations do not arise. But even if they completely isolate their children, they will still be exposed to pornography. For example, if a classmate holds a cell phone with a movie under his nose and asks him to watch it as a test of courage.

How great is the risk of a child being traumatized by this?

Children can usually cope well with this. Too bad if this is the first and only knowledge they have about sexuality. Then the danger of considering pornographic content a documentary is too great. It’s important to let children know that they can come to you when they see something they don’t understand that scares or disgusts them. And that they don’t have to fear being banned from their cell phones. Because that is their biggest fear.