“I’m furious”: Regina Todorenko spoke about her son’s anger 03/16/2023, 06:05

The star has two boys growing up in marriage with singer Vlad Topalov – 4-year-old Mikhail and 8-month-old Miroslav. While Regina is dealing with issues with her older child. She wondered if it was worth punishing him if he did the opposite.

“In general, I don’t like the word punishment very much, the child often recognizes it as an absolute misunderstanding of the situation. In fact, it can be a wild, absolutely “furious” situation. You say, “Wait, I’ll pour it myself,” and now you have the borscht on your pants, in your hair. You need to run to work and all this needs to be scrubbed, changed. And at such moments, of course, I fall into a rage, “said Todorenko.

The presenter of the show “Eagle and Tails” admitted that no one needs such anger, everyone wants to live calmly, comfortably and in love. As a result, she and Vlad turned to a psychologist and books for advice on how to learn to manage their anger at such times.

“I heard a nice lifehack – when a child is hysterical, there’s no point in talking to him, there’s no point in trying to distract him, there’s no point in lecturing, especially for 3-4 year olds. The important thing is to let the baby calm down, just back off. But that’s my way with Misha, he was very angry when I came and started: “Oh, you’re my musi-pusi, why are you crying, my good one.” They’re heavily wedged at the moment, they can’t see you, they can’t hear you, they’re just screaming,” the TV personality said.

As a result, Todorenko and Topalov simply learned to give their son time to vent his emotions. According to the star mom, it is very important to teach the child to show his emotions. After a few hours, you can play a game that will give you a way out of this situation, or read a therapeutic fairy tale, where there is a plot, on the basis of which the conflict occurred. In addition, the couple has a high chair in the house.

“I was guilty, I did something in defiance, we say, ‘We are all very angry and upset by this act, but you have the opportunity to sit in a chair and calm down.’ buckwheat, but such measures exist, “admitted the artist.

However, Vlad and Regina do not use physical punishment, “In our family, children are not punished, they bear the consequences for their actions. And then we teach them to see the cause and effect relationship. Miša recently broke the window sill into the trash. I calmly asked what we were going to do. There was such a theatrical break, “said the singer.

Mikhail offered to fix Regina, but she said she didn’t know how to do it. She invited her son to spend his savings on it. “You have to pay the worker, you give your money that’s in your chest because you broke it, it’s your responsibility,” added the showbiz star. As a result, the child agreed to “reimburse” the damage.